No matter how experienced you are in the bedroom there’s always that little niggling doubt: Are you actually a really bad lover? Many men are too afraid to ask outright in case they get their confidence knocked, but it’s always best to ask a woman what she wants in bed.
“Men are driven by performance,” says Linda Banner, Ph.D., author of Advanced Se_xual Techniques. “They measure their manhood by how many times they can make a woman o-rgasm—how good a lover they are.”
However, a recent study revealed that 68% of women fake it every time – which can make it hard for men to know if they’re on the right track.
Here we reveal three moves you should definitely avoid if you want to be a stallion in the sack:
1. Don’t change position when she starts to respond
Women take longer to warm up than men so it’s important not to rush it. If she’s enjoying something don’t be too hasty to move on to the next move.
The ideal session – according to women – includes 25 minutes of foreplay, so try starting with this.
2. You don’t have to have full s-ex every time
Men often think you need to follow a set procedure when it comes to love-making – a bit of foreplay, followed by s-ex.
However, a recent study revealed the key to making her o-rgasm every time doesn’t even involve s-ex at all.
3. Don’t apologise for coming too quickly
You might feel bad that you blew your load in 30 seconds, but most women don’t really care.
Instead of focussing on your failures, try shifting the focus onto her instead. As we mentioned above, most women actually orgasm through oral se-x and cl-itoral stimulation anyway, so just move on.